It’s Sunday evening, and I’ve just seen Man City win the
League Cup – well the bits for which I could keep my eyes open! This morning we
had the Confirmation service for 53 people. I typed name cards for each of them
- it was the only way to ensure that my list corresponded with those who came
and that I had the names spelt correctly. When you’re dealing with names like Thabiso
Johannes Gadinabokao or Tebogo Obed Gaselalelwe life is not easy! And, of
course, they all had to be written into the register. We began on time at
08.00, but I was still holding 3 candidates name cards. In the end all was well
– and they were actually all present. Everything went according to plan, and
when we finally processed out of the church at 12.30 +Steve’s comment to me was
that it had been a short service!! Apparently no-one had expected it to finish
before 13.00, but I had applied a little unAfrican organisation to the way the
candidates went forward, which was what saved most of the time. It took almost
half an hour for the Bishop to bless the children at the end of the service.
They don’t come to the altar with their parents or Sunday School teachers –
they all come afterwards. I had thought that after the confirmation the numbers
would be halved – not a bit of it. I think they must have all made a special
effort to be there today. There were just as many as last week, and +Steve gave
them all a time-consuming episcopal blessing. In the meantime the congregation
were singing their hearts – and lungs – out. It was deafening. If I was staying
here longer, the blessings would have to change, but as I only have four more
Sundays in Matlosane and for two of those I will be away from Jouberton, it
seems a little late to do anything now. Let the new priest sort it out when he
arrives. Today’s was a joyous service of dedication – but, as the church warden
said, we shall see how many are there next Sunday.
Afterwards there was lunch for the Bishop and Church Council
– and me. But I was also invited to the lunch given by my host’s family,
because one of them had been confirmed. It reminded me of the Christmass
episode of the Vicar of Dibley, where she accepted 3 invitations to lunch. I
went to both, eating mainly at the first, but unable to say No to pudding and
custard at the second.
As to the rest of the week, it has mainly been taken up with
the preparations and admin for today. Friday I spent time working with Ruth on
the Diocesan website, which will one day see the light of day, we’re just not
sure which day!
Yesterday it was St David’s Day and I didn’t have time to
make welsh cakes, and I had no daffodil to wear. It felt very odd. It was also
the Community of St Chad Festival Service – and having been heavily involved in
the last two, I sent Philip a ‘Greeting’ for everyone, which I hoped he’d read out
at the service. Modern methods of communication make our world so small – but it
has taken 4 weeks for a birthday card I sent by Air Mail to England to arrive.
Given that there are daily flights direct to the UK, you wonder where the hold-up
is.
This week brings Ash Wednesday and Lent. That means being in
Jouberton after dark on Wednesday, and I’m a little wary of that. Even in the
day light it’s not safe for a white woman to be driving around alone - I
happily drive to the church, but after that I always have at least one man with
me. So I think that it will have to be convoy to the main road after the service
on Wednesday.
Life is now beginning to slow down a bit, and I’m hoping to
have time to do some of the reading I wanted to do, a bit of reflecting on all
I have been doing, and be a bit of a tourist. We shall see!
Good work! Will parish ministry ever seem the same again? What amazing experiences you are bringing and what a wonderful outworking of God's global community. I have passed on your blessing and text though didn't think of reading it out at the service (sorry) - which did go well at St Chads Lichfield especially with sermon from Robert Mountford, the focus at St Chads Well (in the sun), a picnic lunch and then the walk to the Shrine of St Chad in the Cathedral with prayers.... Hope you manage some recreational time! It was good that three from Clayton were at the service so we shared our hopes that all was continuing to go well for you.......
ReplyDeleteAnother busy and interesting day - again glad to hear that it all went well if rather long and loud!!
ReplyDeleteIt's a lovely day here, blue sky and sunshine - the opposite of yesterday's seemingly continual rain albeit of differing intensity!
I think you probably deserve a little time that is less frantic after the last few weeks!! - hope you manage some 'me' time in these next four weeks, they will go too quickly now I expect!
Trust Wednesday will be ok - take care!!
Love J and R xx